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Spanish for Hooking Up, Dating, Love and Sex.

 

Sexy Spanish Phrases

  
In what I would consider a common “American” relationship at times we are not as comfortable with discussing our feelings sexually and sometimes feel uneasy in expressing our sexuality. 
 
However in many Latin American countries people tend to be more comfortable with their sexuality and are, as a result, often more sensual and open in their relationships.  For this reason learning some sexy Spanish phrases can be helpful in your relationships.
 
First of all think about what is sexy to you?  Is it the way someone dresses, someone smells, someone smiles?  You can start by simply stating that someone is sexy:
 
You are very sexy.
Eres muy sexy.
EH-rehs mwee SEX-ee.
 
How do you let someone know that they look sexy?  Do you tell them or is it more in the way you look at them or touch them?
 
In addition to talking about someone being sexy, you might be at the point that you want to take things further:
 
I want to make love to you.
Quiero hacer el amor contigo.
kee-YEHR-oh AH-sehr ehl ah-MOHR cohn-TEE-goh.
 
I desire you.
Tengo ganas de estar contigo.
TEHN-goh GAH-nahs eh-STAHR cohn-TEE-goh.
 
Both are sexy Spanish phrases that let the other person know you wants and desires.  You could also take it a step further and let someone know that they excite you or arouse you:
 
Me excitas.
meh-ehk-SEE-tahs.

What are some sexy Spanish phrases that you have used to either express your desires or your sexual pleasure (placer sexual: plah-SEHR SEX-oo-ahl)?
 

 

Asking somebody if they're alone or with someone in Spanish

Here’s how you can find out if somebody is alone or with someone. You can use this anywhere you meet someone. Or somebody may ask you. Could be at a park, on the bus, at a bar, etc. 
 
When you ask this you’re not asking if they go out with someone or have a boyfriend or girlfriend. It’s just asking if they are with anyone at that moment.
 
Are you with someone? (to a girl)
Estás acompañada?
ehs-tAHs ah-kohm-pah-nya-dah.
 
Are you with someone? (to a guy)
Estás acompañado?
ehs-tAHs ah-kohm-pah-nya-doh.

The literal translation of the above phrases is "Are you accompanied?"

Here's a couple ways to ask if someone is traveling alone or with others:

Are you traveling by yourself?
Viajas solo/a? (o= said to a man, a= said to a woman)
vee-ah-hahs soh-loh
 
Who are you traveling with?
¿Con quién viajas?
¿kohn kee-EHn vee-ah-hahs?

A couple responses to any of the above:

I’m with a friend.
Estoy con un amigo/a. (o= male friend, a= female friend)
ehs-toy kohn oon ah-mee-goh.

I’m by myself.
Estoy solo/a. (o= for males, a= for females)
ehs-toy soh-loh/ah.

 
 

 

How to ask for a date in Spanish

If you have found someone you are interested in and would like to ask for a date, you probably find yourself in that nerve racking stage of trying to get up the courage to ask them out. 
 
When you add in the factor that the person speaks Spanish as their primary language and you are new to the language, you add a whole other level to the situation. Learning how to ask for a date in Spanish is easy because the basic way to ask someone out starts with the same beginning. 
 
Do you want to go out to…
¿Quieres salir a (infinative verb)?
Kee-YEHR-ehs sah-LEER ah…
 
You then finish this sentence with whatever you are asking them to do such as:
 
dinner dance lunch
cenar bailar almorzar
seh-NAHR bah-ee-LAHR ahl-mohr-ZAHR
So that the finished product would look like this:
 
Do you want to go out for a drink?
¿Quieres salir a tomar una copa (Spain) / bebida (Latin America)?
¿kee-YEHR-ehs sah-LEER ah toh-MAHR OO-nah COH-pah / beh-bee-dah?
 
Another way to ask someone out in Spanish is to simply ask:
 
Do you want to go out with me?
¿Quieres salir conmigo?
¿kee-YEHR-ehs sah-LEER cohn MEE-goh?

It would be good to follow this question up by asking them what they would like to do: 

What do you like to do?
¿Que tipo de cosas le gusta hacer?
keh TEE-poh deh COH-sahs leh GOO-stah ah-SEHR
 
I always find either the lunch option or asking the other person what they like to do to be the safest. The lunch option is safe because if it isn’t working out you can simply bolt after the lunch. 
 
Asking what the other person wants to do is safe because it gives you an insight into who they are, you will definitely suggest something that they are interested in which would make them more likely to say "yes," and it also gives you topics of conversation for your upcoming date. What other ways have you used to ask someone out in Spanish?

 

4 ways to say "I miss you" in Spanish

There are two ways to say "I miss you" in Spanish that are the most common. Which one you will hear more depends whether you are in Spain or Latin America.

The most common way to say "I miss you" in Latin America uses the verb extrañar:

I miss you.
Te extraño.
teh ehks-trahn-yoh.

The most common way to say "I miss you" in Spain uses the verb echar:

I miss you.
Te echo de menos.
teh eh-choh deh meh-nohs.

Here are two more ways to say it that aren't as common as the above phrases:

I miss you. / I need you.
Me haces falta.
meh ah-sehs fahl-tah.

The literal translation of the above phrase doesn't translate very well to English. It uses the word falta which means "lack." It translates more to "I need you" but it is commonly used to say "I miss you" and means basically the same thing.

Here is another way to say "I miss you":

I miss you. / I long for you.
Te añoro.
teh ahn-yoh-roh.

The above phrase is not very common but says "I miss you" with a little more flair. It's like saying "I long for you."

I'll mention a couple mistakes to watch out for.  

Remember if you are talking about “missing” a bus or plane because you did not make it on time use the verb perder instead of the above verbs:

I missed the plane because I woke up late.
Perdí el avión porque yo me desperté tarde.
Pehr-DEE ehl ah-vee-OHN pohr-keh meh dehs-pehr-TEH tahr-deh.

If you want to say you “missed out” on some event like a party or soccer game you can use the reflexive version of perder which is perderse:

I missed out on the party.
Me perdí la fiesta.
Meh pehr-DEE lah fee-esh-tah.

Don't be these guys

I want to throw a link at this woman living in Panama and observing the male tourists hitting on the local chicas… in English. You've probably seen this if you've spent time in tourist spots in Latin America. I’ve witnessed this go down more than a few times. Accurate and good for a chuckle. Like she says though, at least they're giving it a shot.

Spanish love phrases

There is nothing like being in love.  You know, that special feeling you get when you just think about that special someone or how your heart might skip a beat (or two) when they walk in the room. 

When you are in love, you want to be able to express your feelings to that person through not only what you say but how you say it.  

Love is a universal feeling, but the phrases and expressions can vary from language to language.  Spanish love phrases and expressions of love are no different.  

Think about how you might address someone that you love in English.  “My love,” “my darling” and "my dear" are three common ways of addressing the one you love.

my love my darling my dear
mi amor mi cariño mi querido
mee ah-MOHR mee cah-REE-nyoh mee keh-REE-doh

These all mean basically the same thing in Spanish....“You are the one I care about.”  Do you typically use a nick name or pet name?  What are some nicknames that you use?

The word vida (VEE-dah) is often used in Spanish love phrases.  By itself, vida simply means life. Calling someone Mi vida (mee VEE-dah) means you are saying that they are a significant part of your life.  You can say “love life” like this:

Love life.
Vida sentimental.
VEE-dah sehn-tee-MEHN-tahl.

Here are three Spanish love phrases you can start off with:

You are the love of my life.
Eres el amor de mi vida.
EH-rehs ehl ah-MOHR deh mee VEE-dah.

I'm in love with you.
Estoy enamorado/a de ti.
EHS-toy ehn-ah-moh-RAH-doh/ah deh tee.

My love for you never ends.
Mi amor por ti nunca se acaba.
mee ah-MOHR por tee NOON-kah seh ah-KAH-bah.

Expressing your love and feelings is the same in any language, but knowing how to say it naturally in someone else’s native tongue can really make a difference. 

What are some of the typical Spanish love phrases or English love phrases that you use? We would love to hear some ideas for love phrases from all you love birds palomitos (pah-loh-MEE-tohs) out there!

 

 

Sexual Phrases In Spanish

When it comes to sexual phrases in Spanish a lot of countries have their own specific slang and terms. With that in mind I’ve tried to list phrases here that are common and understood in any Spanish speaking country. Here’s how you can tell someone how turned on you are:

You are really turning me on.
Me estás poniendo muy caliente.
meh ehs-tAHs poh-nee-ehn-doh mwee kah-lee-ehn-teh.

In Spanish it’s more common to say poniendo “putting” as in “putting me hot” or “putting me horny” than “making me hot,” “making me horny” or "turning me on."

Just like in English there’s a pretty wide range of ways to say you want to have sex:

From:

Make love to me.
Hazme el amor.
ahs-meh ehl ah-mohr.

To:

Let’s fuck.
Vamos a coger. (common in Latin America)
vah-mohs ah koh-hehr.

Let’s fuck.
Vamos a follar. (common in Spain)
vah-mohs ah foh-yahr.

Here’s a couple things you can say during sex when you want to say how good something feels:

Me encanta.
meh ehn-kahn-tah.

Qué rico.
kEH ree-koh.

Everyone likes compliments about how great they are in bed. So here’s a couple you can look forward to using. Keep in mind though if you’re going to be having sex with them again, you compliment them, and you actually didn’t like it that much you’ll probably wind up with the same thing next time.

With that said, here’s a couple ways to compliment someone’s performance:

You're great in bed.
Eres fabuloso/a en la cama.
eh-rehs fah-boo-loh-soh/ah ehn lah kah-mah.

And if your eyes got dislodged from their sockets from the intensity…

That was the best sex I've ever had.
Ha sido el mejor sexo de mi vida.
ah see-doh ehl meh-hohr sehks-oh deh mee vee-dah.

 

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