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Spanish for Hooking Up, Dating, Love and Sex.

 

asking someone out

Asking if someone has more than one boyfriend or girlfriend

 
 
Whether you want to date someone mutually exclusive or are interested in a short term relationship or simply a one night fling, knowing the intentions of the person you are interested in is important.  If you are interested in a long term relationship, you don't want to date someone who goes out with someone new every night or if you are interested in playing around, you don't want to go out with someone looking for a commitment.
 
So, if you are interested in someone, you can find out their intentions by asking whether or not they have more than one girlfriend/boyfriend:
 
Does she have more than one boyfriend?
¿Anda con otro?
¿AHN-dah kohn OH-troh?
 
Do you have more than one girlfriend?
¿Andas con otra?
¿AHN-dahs kohn OH-trah?
 
If you know somebody has a current girlfriend/boyfriend, but are still interested in pursuing them, you can ask:
 
Would you go out with somebody else?
¿Andaría con otro/a?
¿ahn-dahr-REE-ah kohn OH-troh/ah?
 
Depending on the answer you get, you might be making a date or making a break for it.
 
 
 
 

 

Renting a movie or going to the movie theater

I've added additional phrases to the Movies section of the Hook Up Spanish Phrase Guide. These phrases cover either renting a movie or going to the movies. Phrases like:

What's playing at the theater.

What you've heard about a particular film.

If it's subtitled or dubbed.

Asking what they think of the movie, actors, director, plot.

Popcorn, drinks, etc..

Getting someone's contact info

Today I put up some phrases on asking people's contact info for the Hook Up Spanish Online Phrase Guide. This includes cel, hotel, work and home phone numbers plus their address, email addy, etc. I also mention how you can ask them if they have something to write with or on in case you don't.

Responding to someone asking you out

I've added some phrases to the Hook Up Spanish Phrase Guide for different responses you can give if someone is trying to set up a date or make plans with you. Check it out here: Responding to hookups or plans

Asking for phone numbers in Spanish

  
Whether you have seen someone across the room that has sparked your interest or you have just spent the whole evening talking to someone you are attracted to, don’t end the evening without asking for their phone number.  It doesn’t hurt to ask and you don’t want to let the opportunity pass you by to have this encounter grow into something else. 

The first thing when asking for numbers in Spanish is to learn your numbers in Spanish from 1-100.  The reason for this is that when someone gives you their phone number in Spanish they are going to combine numbers instead of giving them to you individually.
 
For example, 555-555-5555 is typically given as:
 
Area five fifty-five, five fifty-five, fifty-five, fifty-five
Área cinco cincuenta y cinco, cinco cincuenta y cinco, cincuenta y cinco, cincuenta y cinco
AH-reh-ah SIHN-coh sihn-CWEHN-tah ee SIHN-coh, SIHN-coh sihn-CWEHN-tah ee SIHN-coh, sihn-CWEHN-tah ee SIHN-coh, sihn-CWEHN-tah ee SIHN-coh
 
As you can see, if all you know is 1-10 you will never understand the phone number when it is given to you.  Once you are ready to ask, asking for phone numbers in Spanish is simple:
 
Can I have your (telephone) number?
¿Puedo tener tu número (de teléfono)?
PWEH-doh tehn-EHR too NOO-mehr-oh (deh tehl-EH-foh-noh)
 
I put telephone in parenthesis because you will find that most people will just ask for your “number” and leave off “telephone.”  And remember, if you are in doubt, have them “write it down,” escríbelo (eh-SKREE-beh-loh), so that you make sure you have the correct number.  How else could you ask someone for their phone number in Spanish?
 

 

Setting up where to meet someone

I've added some phrases to the Hook Up Spanish Phrase Guide on deciding on a place where to meet. These are some practical Spanish phrases to know if you are making plans with someone.

How to ask for a date in Spanish

If you have found someone you are interested in and would like to ask for a date, you probably find yourself in that nerve racking stage of trying to get up the courage to ask them out. 
 
When you add in the factor that the person speaks Spanish as their primary language and you are new to the language, you add a whole other level to the situation. Learning how to ask for a date in Spanish is easy because the basic way to ask someone out starts with the same beginning. 
 
Do you want to go out to…
¿Quieres salir a (infinative verb)?
Kee-YEHR-ehs sah-LEER ah…
 
You then finish this sentence with whatever you are asking them to do such as:
 
dinner dance lunch
cenar bailar almorzar
seh-NAHR bah-ee-LAHR ahl-mohr-ZAHR
So that the finished product would look like this:
 
Do you want to go out for a drink?
¿Quieres salir a tomar una copa (Spain) / bebida (Latin America)?
¿kee-YEHR-ehs sah-LEER ah toh-MAHR OO-nah COH-pah / beh-bee-dah?
 
Another way to ask someone out in Spanish is to simply ask:
 
Do you want to go out with me?
¿Quieres salir conmigo?
¿kee-YEHR-ehs sah-LEER cohn MEE-goh?

It would be good to follow this question up by asking them what they would like to do: 

What do you like to do?
¿Que tipo de cosas le gusta hacer?
keh TEE-poh deh COH-sahs leh GOO-stah ah-SEHR
 
I always find either the lunch option or asking the other person what they like to do to be the safest. The lunch option is safe because if it isn’t working out you can simply bolt after the lunch. 
 
Asking what the other person wants to do is safe because it gives you an insight into who they are, you will definitely suggest something that they are interested in which would make them more likely to say "yes," and it also gives you topics of conversation for your upcoming date. What other ways have you used to ask someone out in Spanish?

 

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