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Spanish for Hooking Up, Dating, Love and Sex.

 

love and romantic phrases

Giving compliments temporary vs. permanent

 

Since Spanish has two forms of "to be", ser and estar, it's common for people new to the language not to know which verb to use or when to use one or the other when complimenting someone on their looks or personality. This post will clear this up for you easily.

Since estar is more for temporary situations use it when complimenting someone at that particular time.

If you want to tell a woman that she looks beautiful right now or today or this evening you can say:

You are beautiful. (You look beautiful right now)
Estás hermosa.
eh-STAHS ehr-moh-sah.

To compliment a guy:

You are handsome. (You look handsome right now)
Estás guapo.
eh-STAHS gwah-poh.

If you want to tell someone they are a beautiful woman or a handsome man, use ser instead:

You are beautiful.
Eres hermosa.
eh-rehs ehr-moh-sah.

You are handsome.
Eres guapo.
eh-rehs gwah-poh.

  

 

How to Propose in Spanish

So you have found the person that you want to be with for the rest of your life? The time has come to pop the question and ask them to marry you. Finding the right way to say and express how important that someone special is to you is not always easy. After all, your feelings run so deep that you can’t imagine not being with them forever. There are many ways you can propose in Spanish. Let’s start with the basics.
 
Will you marry me?
¿Quieres casarte conmigo?
kee-YEHR-ehs cah-SAHR-teh cohn-MEE-goh
 
Now that you know how to ask the official question, start thinking about what you want to say leading up to the proposal. Think about what is special about the other person. What makes you want to marry them? Learning how to propose in Spanish is more than just asking them, it is also telling them how deeply you care for them. Examples of reasons that you want to marry them include:
 
I want to be with you forever.
Quiero estar contigo para siempre.
kee-YEHR-oh eh-STAR cohn-TEE-goh PAH-rah see-YEHM-preh
 
I can’t imagine my life without you.
No puedo imaginar mi vida sin ti.
Noh PWEH-doh ee-mah-jee-NAHR mee VEE-dah sihn tee.
 
I want to be with you for the rest of my life.
Quiero pasar el resto de mi vida contigo.
kee-YEHR-oh pah-SAHR ehl REH-stoh deh mee VEE-dah cohn-TEE-goh
 
I want to grow old together.
Quiero que envejezcamos juntos.
kee-YEHR-oh keh ehn-veh-jehz-CAH-mohs HOON-tohs
 
However you choose to propose in Spanish, make sure you make it special and that you fully let the other person know how special they are to you. What are some other ways to propose in Spanish?

 

Spanish Love Letters

For some, saying how you feel about another person can be difficult. It isn’t usually because you don’t know how you feel, it is that it can be intimidating to say the words out loud, face-to-face. For this reason, you might want to consider writing your feelings in a Spanish love letter. Often the written word can have more impact because you may feel more freedom when writing your most intimate thoughts verses speaking them.
 
When starting Spanish love letters, you need to keep in mind the difference between how you address someone you love versus how you start any other letter. In English, you start the letter the same way for a variety of audiences such as “Dear Tom,” or “Dear Mr. Smith,” or “Dear Sir or Madam.” However, in Spanish, you will use a variety of words for “Dear” depending on the audience. 
 
If it is simply an aquantaince or a business letter, you would use the word estimado (eh-stee-MAH-doh) such as:
 
Dear Mr. Martinez
Estimado Señor Martinez
eh-stee-MAH-doh see-NYOHR mahr-TEE-nehz
 
or
 
Dear Madam
Estimada Señora
eh-stee-MAH-dah see-NYOHR-ah
 
The word for “Dear” that signifies endearment, love, a family member or even a close friend is Querido (keh-REE-doh):
 
Dear Fernando
Querido Fernando
keh-REE-doh fehr-NAHN-doh
 
Since how you start a letter sets the tone of the letter, you need to think about how serious your relationship is before you begin writing Spanish love letters. After all, if you have just started dating someone, you might not be ready to dive into the querido stage yet. What are some ideas for Spanish love letters that you have either written or received that could help out someone looking for a way to express themselves?

 

How to say "thinking about you" and similar phrases in Spanish

Here's a mistake to avoid.
 
If you've learned some Spanish you probably know that the translation of the word "of" is de and the word "about" can be acerca de or sobre.
 
When you're dating someone it's popular to tell them that you've been thinking "about" or "of" them.
 
I've been thinking about you.
 
I always think about you.
 
I think about you all the time.

 
In Spanish when it comes to "thinking about you" or "thinking of you" the literal translation isn't used. Instead of translating the word "about" or "of" the word en is used. En means "in" or "on" but in these examples it's the correct translation.
 
So:
 
I've been thinking about you.
He estado pensando en ti.
eh ehs-tah-doh pehn-sahn-doh ehn tee.
 
I always think about you.
Siempre pienso en ti.
see-ehm-preh pee-ehn-soh ehn tee.
 
I think about you all the time.
Pienso en ti todo el tiempo.
pee-ehn-soh ehn tee toh-doh ehl tee-ehm-poh.

 

4 ways to say "I miss you" in Spanish

There are two ways to say "I miss you" in Spanish that are the most common. Which one you will hear more depends whether you are in Spain or Latin America.

The most common way to say "I miss you" in Latin America uses the verb extrañar:

I miss you.
Te extraño.
teh ehks-trahn-yoh.

The most common way to say "I miss you" in Spain uses the verb echar:

I miss you.
Te echo de menos.
teh eh-choh deh meh-nohs.

Here are two more ways to say it that aren't as common as the above phrases:

I miss you. / I need you.
Me haces falta.
meh ah-sehs fahl-tah.

The literal translation of the above phrase doesn't translate very well to English. It uses the word falta which means "lack." It translates more to "I need you" but it is commonly used to say "I miss you" and means basically the same thing.

Here is another way to say "I miss you":

I miss you. / I long for you.
Te añoro.
teh ahn-yoh-roh.

The above phrase is not very common but says "I miss you" with a little more flair. It's like saying "I long for you."

I'll mention a couple mistakes to watch out for.  

Remember if you are talking about “missing” a bus or plane because you did not make it on time use the verb perder instead of the above verbs:

I missed the plane because I woke up late.
Perdí el avión porque yo me desperté tarde.
Pehr-DEE ehl ah-vee-OHN pohr-keh meh dehs-pehr-TEH tahr-deh.

If you want to say you “missed out” on some event like a party or soccer game you can use the reflexive version of perder which is perderse:

I missed out on the party.
Me perdí la fiesta.
Meh pehr-DEE lah fee-esh-tah.

Spanish love phrases

There is nothing like being in love.  You know, that special feeling you get when you just think about that special someone or how your heart might skip a beat (or two) when they walk in the room. 

When you are in love, you want to be able to express your feelings to that person through not only what you say but how you say it.  

Love is a universal feeling, but the phrases and expressions can vary from language to language.  Spanish love phrases and expressions of love are no different.  

Think about how you might address someone that you love in English.  “My love,” “my darling” and "my dear" are three common ways of addressing the one you love.

my love my darling my dear
mi amor mi cariño mi querido
mee ah-MOHR mee cah-REE-nyoh mee keh-REE-doh

These all mean basically the same thing in Spanish....“You are the one I care about.”  Do you typically use a nick name or pet name?  What are some nicknames that you use?

The word vida (VEE-dah) is often used in Spanish love phrases.  By itself, vida simply means life. Calling someone Mi vida (mee VEE-dah) means you are saying that they are a significant part of your life.  You can say “love life” like this:

Love life.
Vida sentimental.
VEE-dah sehn-tee-MEHN-tahl.

Here are three Spanish love phrases you can start off with:

You are the love of my life.
Eres el amor de mi vida.
EH-rehs ehl ah-MOHR deh mee VEE-dah.

I'm in love with you.
Estoy enamorado/a de ti.
EHS-toy ehn-ah-moh-RAH-doh/ah deh tee.

My love for you never ends.
Mi amor por ti nunca se acaba.
mee ah-MOHR por tee NOON-kah seh ah-KAH-bah.

Expressing your love and feelings is the same in any language, but knowing how to say it naturally in someone else’s native tongue can really make a difference. 

What are some of the typical Spanish love phrases or English love phrases that you use? We would love to hear some ideas for love phrases from all you love birds palomitos (pah-loh-MEE-tohs) out there!

 

 

How to say "I love you" in Spanish

As with any language, there can be more than one way to say certain things in Spanish. An example of this is how to say “I love you.” There are two main ways to say “I love you” in Spanish.

Te amo.
teh AH-moh.

or…

Te quiero.
teh kee-YEHR-oh.

In some areas, they mean exactly the same thing. However, in other areas they mean two different levels of love. In this instance, te quiero is not as strong of a sentiment as te amo. Te quiero is used more for friends and relatives whereas te amo is reserved more for boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife relationships. Te amo is also a strong sentiment expressed between children and their parents in some areas.

Te quiero is often used to express "I want you," but using the phrase te deseo (teh deh-SEH-oh) would probably be better so that you are not mistakenly expressing “I love you” in Spanish instead of "I desire you."

A good way to remember the difference is when you talk about someone falling in love or being in love. For example:

They are in love.
Están enamorados el uno del otro.
eh-STAHN ehn-AH-moh-rah-dohs ehl OO-noh dehl OH-troh.

The word enamorados contains the word amo.

What expressions do you use to express “I love you” in Spanish? Do you use te amo and te quiero interchangeably or do you use them separately depending on the relationship?

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