Don’t Take Dating Advice From The Opposite Sex


I stumbled across this article a few days ago titled “How to Seduce a Latina Woman.” I started reading through the generic advice it gave until I hit this part:

“Time to impress her with a beautiful romantic dinner. DON’T BE CHEAP! The first date is crucial so go all out. A restaurant that needs a reservation would be best.”

I immediately knew this was written by a woman. I scrolled back up to the top of the article to see the author’s name. Confirmed. This is horrible advice for so many reasons I don’t even want to crack it open right now. Furthermore, since she’s talking about Latinas, if there’s a language barrier between both of you it’s even worse. Go see some live music or something so you can occupy yourselves without having to constantly deal with the communication problem. If you’re stuck with a long dinner like she describes it would probably be better to start a food fight with her than trying to “impress her with a beautiful romantic dinner.”

It doesn’t get any better after that:

“A bottle of champagne” (at that expensive restaurant)
I blew all this money on you, please like me.

“DO NOT bring up sex, sexual acts or anything perverted.”
If it’s too awkward to bring up sex, there are bigger problems. There are a lot of ways to bring up sex in a non-creepy way to build attraction.

“…tell her how much you enjoyed her company, and how beautiful she is.”
See champagne comment.

“But most importantly let her make the first move towards the bedroom.”
But most importantly… the guy should be leading.

“If she wants you, she will let you know.”
Nope.

If you follow the advice in that article what exactly is creating the attraction within her that allows her to be seduced? The fact he blew his paycheck on some uptight dinner?

Don’t take dating advice from the opposite sex. If you’re a guy find another guy who is having the success with women that you want. If you’re a woman find another woman who is having the success with men that you want. Does that mean every piece of advice the opposite sex gives you will be bad? No, but if you see somebody that is getting the results you want why take take a chance with advice from the opposite sex that may or may not work?

Recently a guy from South America who is a seduction coach started showing how he seduces Latinas. You’re better off taking his advice than the self inflicted wounds you’ll get from following the article mentioned at the beginning.

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6 Responses to Don’t Take Dating Advice From The Opposite Sex
  1. i am a spanish latin girl and i have to say you wrote it very nice. i am fresh in love and i could kiss the hole world.
    thank you for this howto :)

    kisses sieroa

  2. Love is not sex.. It’s apart from live.
    Feel it. Don’t waste it..

  3. I disagree. I am male and have some female friends. They offer great advice and insight!

    • Jason

      I said this in the article-

      “Does that mean every piece of advice the opposite sex gives you will be bad? No, …”

  4. Wolf

    I found this website looking for some sexy things I could say (and text) with the Latina hottie I am currently dating. Had I followed the advice in that woman’s article (champagne?!) I would not be dating her now. What women say they want and what they actually respond to are very different things. You are exactly right when you say that the man should be always leading…her to the bedroom. “If she wants you, she will let you know” by following you there. Great article Jason and thanks for all the sexy Spanish!

    • Jason

      Thanks man.

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