Spanish Sex Phrases

When it comes to sexual phrases in Spanish a lot of countries have their own specific slang. With that in mind I’ve tried to list phrases here that are common and understood in any Spanish speaking country.

Here’s some ways to say you want to have sex from soft to direct:

I want to make love to you.
Quiero hacerte el amor.
kee-yehr-oh ah-sehr-teh ehl ah-mohr.

I want to make love to you all night long.
Quiero hacerte el amor toda la noche.
kee-yehr-oh ah-sehr-teh ehl ah-mohr toh-dah lah no-cheh.

Let’s make love.
Hagamos el amor.
ah-gah-mohs ehl ah-mohr.

Make love to me.
Hazme el amor.
ahs-meh ehl ah-mohr.

Let’s do it.

I want to have sex with you.
Quiero tener sexo contigo.
kee-yeh-roh teh-nehr seks-soh koh-tee-goh.

Let’s have sex.
Tengamos sexo.
tehn-gah-mohs seks-soh.

I want to fuck you.
Quiero follarte. (Spain)
kee-yehr-oh foh-yahr-teh.

I want to fuck you.
Quiero cogerte. (Latin America)
kee-yehr-oh koh-hehr-teh.

Let’s fuck.
Follemos. (Spain)

Let’s fuck.
Cojamos. (Latin America)

Everyone likes compliments about how great they are in bed. Here’s some ways to compliment someone’s performance.

Here’s a couple ways to say “I love it“:

Me encanta.
meh ehn-kahn-tah.

Qué rico.
kEH ree-koh.

You’re great in bed.
Eres fabuloso/a en la cama.
eh-rehs fah-boo-loh-soh/ah ehn lah kah-mah.

And if your eyes got dislodged from their sockets from the intensity…

That was the best sex I’ve ever had.
Ha sido el mejor sexo de mi vida.
ah see-doh ehl meh-hohr sehks-oh deh mee vee-dah.

Some of the Spanish sex slang below varies from country to country, look up the English term in the Hook Up Spanish Dictionary for other slang. Plug and play with the phrases and words below. Take a phrase and use one of the words below to fill in the blank.

I (don’t) like _____.
(No) me gusta _____.
(noh) meh goos-tah _____.

I love _____.
Me encanta _____.
meh ehn-kahn-tah _____.

to kiss

gentle sex
la ternura
lah tehr-noo-rah

to masturbate

to eat pussy
comer [el/la] chocho/a
koh-mehr [ehl/lah] choh-choh/ah

to put it in your mouth
metértela en la boca
meh-tEHr-teh-lah ehn lah boh-kah

to get sucked *
que me la mamen
keh meh lah mah-mehn

to fuck

do it doggy style
hacerlo a cuatro patas
ah-sehr-loh ah kwaht-roh pah-tahs

You (don’t) like _____?
¿(No) te gusta _____? *
¿(noh) teh goos-tah _____?

I want _____.
Quiero _____.
kee-eh-roh _____.

safe sex
el sexo seguro
ehl seh-ksoh seh-goo-roh

rough sex
el sexo duro
ehl seh-ksoh doo-roh

to masturbate you

to get eaten out *
que me lo coman
keh meh loh koh-mahn

to put it in my mouth
metérmela en la boca
meh-tEHr-meh-lah ehn lah boh-kah

to suck cock

to be fucked *
que me cojan
keh meh koh-hahn

to sixty-nine
hacer el sesenta y nueve
ah-sehr ehl seh-sehn-tah ee nweh-veh


* Don’t use any phrase with an asterisk with the phrase “¿(No) te gusta _____?”  It won’t make any sense.

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42 Responses

  1. Helena says:

    I’m UNO to leave a comment 🙂

    • Jason says:

      Actually you’re the primera

      one = uno (masculine)
      one = una (feminine)

      first = primero (masculine)
      first = primera (feminine)

  2. andrea says:

    How do I say, Whenever I’m near you I get wet? Or You are making me wet?

    • Jason says:

      Andrea, you can say….

      You make me wet = Me haces mojada

    • Anonymous says:

      You can say
      Haces que me moje, or, cuando estoy cerca tuyo me mojo xD

  3. andrea says:

    How do I say things like:

    I’m cumming
    Did you cum?
    You are making me cum.
    Do you want to cum?

    Thanks so much for this site. I speak pretty good Spanish but not sex spanish!

    • Jason says:

      The verb that you’ll use depends on the region/country like a lot of other Spanish slang. In this case- Spain correrse, Latin America venirse, acabar, terminar

      I’m coming/cumming = Me estoy corriendo (Spain) or Ya me vengo (L.Am.)

      If you speak ok Spanish just conjugate the verb normally for your other examples. Delving deeper into all the slang and variances is probably worth a blog post one of these days.

  4. kayla says:

    Wow, I love this cuz i speak spanish with the guys to get them in bed but i don’t know how to say anything like this. Thanks 🙂

  5. Kiss__XXX says:

    How do you say: fuck me harder, your dick is so big, eat my pussy, go crazy on that pussy, go deeper, cum on my face?

    • Jason says:

      Sorry for the late response, dreadful etiquette, I apologize. If you want phrases translated but can’t or don’t want to attempt it yourself please submit them here.

    • Morena says:

      Cojeme mas duro
      Tu pene esta grande
      Comeme la pepa
      Metemelo mas ondo
      Vente en mi cara

  6. Rob says:

    I have a Latina girl with a voluptuous ass from Colombia. She loves ass play…tickling, caressing, kissing, licking, tasting and of course anal sex. I am not that good with Spanish but I am learning. If you could give me some help, she will appreciate it believe me. How do you say…

    Oh my, your ass is perfect.
    I love the taste of your juicy ass.
    Your ass is delicious.
    Baby, sit your delicious ass on my face so I can lick it.
    Your ass is yummy.
    I love the way your ass feels around my cock.
    My cock is a perfect fit in your tight ass.

    Thanks…and trust me this will help so much with our love/ass play. Latinas really love their asses played with and adored. I am a very lucky man…

    • Jason says:

      Hey Rob, sorry for the late response, I apologize. That’s quite an eclectic group of phrases you’ve gathered together. If you want phrases translated but can’t or don’t want to attempt translating them yourself please submit them here.

      Also, I am working on a phrasebook for sex right now, you can leave me a message here if there’s specific things you’d like covered in the book and I’ll take them into consideration. Regardless, it sounds like you are doing just fine without any translations.

    • Anonymous says:

      Rob i live in Colombia. Hit me on Facebook.

      Mr Chapman

  7. Te amo says:

    HAHAHAHA 😉 Tem amo

  8. Te amo says:

    Te amo

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  10. Puddycat_XXX says:

    How do you say “freaky”

  11. Puddycat_XXX says:

    or I am freaky?

  12. Hayley says:

    Can you tell me some really rude / filthy stuff I can tell my friend to say to her boyfriend

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  15. LR says:

    Great blog! Just wanted to say that it is worth calling out *why* the asterisk’d phases don’t work with no me/te gusta and/or how to use them appropriately. English has all but eliminated the subjunctive, so it can be hard to identify an analogous phase to help understand the appropriate sentence structure… Deseo que ___?

    • Jason says:

      Sorry for the late reply. The asterisk is only for the (no) te gusta phrase. It’s because if you combine those one part of the phrase will be te and the other part of the phrase will be me. If you combine them you wind up with a translation like this:

      You like to get sucked?
      ¿Te gusta que me la mamen?
      The Spanish translates to: You like that I get sucked?

      It’s not a correct translation.

  16. EM says:

    Thanks for this. I’m bisexual and not Latina but speak nearly fluent Spanish. My girlfriend goes crazy when I switch languages on her in bed. I’m not as familiar with the filthier side of Spanish, so I came across this while looking for a resource to brush up. ¡Muchas gracias!

  17. Queenie says:

    I recently starting seeing a Puerto Rican/Italian man recently and i appreciate all of the help with phrases and the phonetics that follow it

    • Jason says:

      Glad you find the site useful. The phonetics were time consuming at first but now that I’m used to them I can write them almost as fast as regular writing.

  18. Pryncess says:

    How do you say fuck me harder daddy and go deeper?

  19. El Papé por las mijitas says:

    Pryncess, by the article it looks like your first (hot) statement might be, “¡Me cojas guro, Papé!” (Fuck me rougher Daddy!). Para, niñita, no se dicer ‘deeper’ en espanõl.

  20. Anonymous says:

    Having sex with a cuban and want to know how to say I’m cumming

  21. Treasure says:

    How do u say “I want to fuck you in an open space?” My guy is half Spaniard/Peruvian

  22. Cat917 says:

    How do tell these things in Spanish?;

    How many times do I have to tell you that I am attracted to your personality, not to your dick? Please stop showing me your dick..

  23. Jamie Robson says:

    How do you say ” please be my first bi curious experiment”

  24. Mike says:

    How to say, can I eat your pussy? Turns her on when I attempt Spanish. Lol.

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